The 5 things every girl does before she meets her boyfriend

1. Get Changed More Then Once

2. Put Make up On

3. SPray Perfume.

4. Get a Hot Bath.

5. Panic About Looking Good.

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How to Be a Good Boyfriend

1-Always tell the truth. No one likes being lied to, and then you won't have to worry about covering the lies up

1. Make her feel important to you, but don't be overly protective. (Instead of snatching the joint out of her hand and threatening to break up with her if she EVER smokes weed again, tell her you're worried about her.)
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   Notice the little changes in her appearance, because she likely did it for you.
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   Smell nice and keep a clean, smart appearance.
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   Hold doors for her, chivalry is not dead!
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   If she's home sick from school, call and text every few hours so she doesn't feel lonely.
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   Tell her when you are thinking about her.
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   Make an effort to get along with her friends. Be friendly, but don't flirt with them. Your girlfriend could easily be hurt by this. Do your best not to argue with them.
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   Never cheat on her. Ever. Because if you do, and she has any self respect, she'll break up with you for a guy who will treat her well.
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   Reassure her when she's feeling insecure. "Your hair looks fine!"
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    Don't be controlling, but don't be her bitch. You guys should both be making choices in the relationship.
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    Respect the fact that girls like to go out with their friends.
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    Tell her she looks beautiful when she's clearly made an effort (especially for special functions like the prom).
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    Try to cheer her up when she's sad about little things. For emotions like grief, it's best to simply be there for her, she wants sympathy, not a solution.
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    Don't try to make her jealous, or suggest that she may be jealous.
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    Don't tell her you think other girls are hot, even if she asks your opinion.
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    Let her play with your hair, even if she's messing it up.
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    Don't be jealous about her exes. She's with you, not with them.
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    In the same way, don't make her jealous of your exes. Keep conversations about them to an absolute minimum.
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    Don't tell her to get off your lap. If your leg is falling asleep have her change her position a little.
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    Listen to her music before you decide you don't like it, even if it's a genre you don't like. If after some time you still don't like it, try and nicely tell her you have other interests. Share your music with her.
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    Listen to her speak, even if the topic is boring. After a bit, gently change the subject.
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    Don't let your friends pick on her. Stick up for her, even if they are only kidding!
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    "No" always means no. Even when you think it doesn't. If she's not ready for sex, she's not ready for sex and that's that.
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    Always pay for dates, even if she insists, the first couple times. After that you should still always pay unless she insists to.
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    Do activities you both love together, and try new things together.
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    Kiss her on the forehead and on top of her head, especially when she is feeling down, and always say a simple 'I love you'. It will make her happy. (NOTE: See tip on saying "I love you").
    • Make her something. A paper flower, an artsy heart, something creative that reflects your personality, so whenever she looks at it she'll think of you and smile.
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    Remember that no matter who, no matter when, any guy has a chance to sweep any woman off her feet. No woman wakes up saying, "God, I hope I don't get swept off my feet today!" You just have to get on the right path.
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    Always be willing and ready to cuddle with her.
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    If you are laying out under the stars make sure you hold her hand! And if she says something like, "I'm cold," make sure you move closer to her, or offer your jacket.
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    When watching a movie, make sure you are sitting with her, especially if it's a scary movie!
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    When she is venting about something (whether it's about her life or about your relationship) don't turn it into something about you. She's just telling you her feelings. Tell her your feelings at another time.
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    Don't be afraid of kissing her in public if she wants to.
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    MAKE THE FIRST MOVE BECAUSE SHE'S EXPECTING YOU TO.
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    Answer her phone calls...and don't complain that she woke you up.
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    Call her for no reason... just to talk to her so she knows that you care and are always thinking of her.
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    Notice the tiny details about her, if she mentions that she liked something and then 3 weeks later you remember she'll love it.
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    If she asks you to come sit next to her or something, it's not a choice, she's telling you to.
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    Surprise her! (But not in an annoying way, it has to be sweet and loving e.g. a small gift or sending her something in the post.)
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    Call her at night just to wish her sweet dreams.
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    Vary your word choice. Don't always call her "beautiful" and don't always call her "sexy". Mix it up. Better yet, compliment her on things other than her appearance or on things uniquely attractive on her. (Her adorable nose, her confidence in any situation, her graceful neck, the way she accepts everyone for who they are, etcetera.)
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    It's okay to be lovey-dovey with her around your friends! Don't overdo it though, and don't do anything you wouldn't do if your friends weren't there (don't show her off, but holding her hand is a nice gesture saying "I love you and respect you" without making it look like she's a trophy or something.
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    Don't forget her birthday. Just don't.
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    Read her body language. If she looks uncomfortable or mouths "help" to a friend while you have your hand on her thigh... move it. You don't need to say anything, just move it.
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    Listen to her boundaries. If she says she doesn't like PDAs (public displays of affection), you better respect that.
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    Be silly! [Most] girls will love a funny guy (unless they had a heart of stone). Be funny and silly. Play the game Truth with her or something and ask silly questions. Your boyfriend/girlfriend should also be your best friend...and most people goof off with their best friends! You shouldn't feel like you have to impress each other. Ever.
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    Don't always take her to scary movies. It looks like you're just trying to get some action. Try seeing a romantic comedy sometime (it will surely lead to a kiss at the end) or a drama, tragedy, heck even a kids' movie is fun sometimes!
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    Give her a cute pet name. Always a good idea. If she doesn't like it, drop it immediately and think up another one. If she doesn't like pet names she'll let you know.
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    Don't be paranoid. Let her talk to other guys, don't always worry that she's gonna break up with you, don't always wonder if she's pissed, etc. Just love her as much as you can and treat her right and hopefully everything will turn out right
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    Write poetry for her. Writing a girl poetry or a song is extremely cute. Who cares if you misspell something, repeat a word in the same sentence or leave out a comma? A girl will always be flattered that you care enough to do something like that for her. Just don't write her anything too...sexy. Write a poem about her eyes or the way she smiles. Write about her laugh or how much she means to you. If you feel you just can't write poetry, find some tender, romantic poetry and copy the best ones, adding the author's name and under that "This is how you make me feel".
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    Never ever ever ever ever ever ever EVER ask for nude pictures. If she wants you to see you naked, she'll do it in person. If she offers, though, you could always accept.
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    Write out "I love you", not "ily". And say "I Love You" to her face. If you are sending text and you say "ily" that's all fine and good but it is so much cuter (and shows more seriousness and respect) if you take the time to write I Love You. It means a lot more to both of you. Also, say it to her face the first time -- don't use text. Look in her eyes, take her hands and say "I Love You." When you say "I Love You" mean it, don't just say it because you think she expects you too.
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    be honest about your feelings. if you like a girl but aren't dating yet, and you don't necessarily want to date her RIGHT NOW, make sure she understands. if you want to date her, make sure she understands that too.
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    Never be mean to her. If you're kidding make it very obvious that you are kidding right away.
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    Opposites attract. You can like different things. Even if you have lots in common, you can still like different things and have a strong relationship.
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    When they say stop (making fun of them, touching them, joking around, etc.) do it, it can make a girl very angry.
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    Don't ignore her! It would make her feel like you are not into her anymore
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    Don't change for her. She's going out with you isn't she? Then that means that she likes you for who you are.
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    If she thinks that you are cheating on her, or that you like someone else; make sure that you remind her how much you love her and do something cute, or really nice to remind her that she means so much to you.
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    Be kind and respectful to her always. But don't cling to her. Give her a little space from time to time.
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How to Win a Girls Heart in 5 Easy Steps Read more: How to Win a Girls Heart in 5 Easy Steps

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If you want to win a girls heart, it's important to be yourself. If you try to win her heart pretending to be someone you're not, you will break it when she finds out. Don't build a relationship pretending to be someone else.

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If the way to a man's heart is through his stomach, then the way to a girl's heart is found by giving her gifts. Girls love to get things, but that doesn't mean you have to spend everything in your wallet. Take her out to dinner somewhere fun, or just give her your time-you don't need to buy expensive gifts.

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To win a girls heart you need to be fun and outgoing. Show her that you like to have fun and try new things. Go out to eat dinner at new places, or try a new hobby that neither of you has done before.

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Always be honest with her. To win a girl you need to be someone she can talk to, but talking doesn't do any good when you reply with a lie. Don't be afraid to tell her what you really think or how you really feel about her or your relationship.

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Finally to win a girls heart you need to have plans ready for when she falls for you. You don't need to plan to get married or move in together, but do plan to set aside some of your time to hang out with her and talk to her. It might not be a bad idea to exchange cell numbers once she falls for you-who knows-you might just fall for her too!



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Top Ten Ways to Get Revenge from Your Ex-Boyfriend

1. Oh Daddy You've Been Naughty!
Nothing will surely hurt your ex more than seducing and sleeping with his father or brother. Of course, the consequence might be unbearable afterwards. You will have to deal with being called a slut, whore, floozy and all those other words that connote a very sinful woman. By ready though, for if you do this, you will become the modern Mary Magdalene in front of your ex's eyes and his family. If you're really not into his next of kin, then there's always the best friend to go after and seduce.

2. Break up sex—NOT!

What guy could resist the allure of a proposal to have break-up sex? For him, the proposal spells fun, kinky sex with no attachments whatsoever; more, he'd think that such a proposal means that everything is cool despite the break-up.

Promise him that you'll don your sexiest lingerie, that you'll bring a bottle of champagne and that you'll give him a night of unforgettable bliss. Just be sure that you bring your handcuffs and your cold heart with you—it wouldn't be a good idea to back out from the plan on the last minute.

You can't carry out this plan in your apartment; it has to be in a motel or hotel, where he'll surely get embarrassed. The plan's simple: As soon as you get him naked, ask him to wear a pair of leather thongs. Handcuff him to the bed and that's it—you leave him there to scream for help.

You could also take pictures of him and use it for blackmailing purposes, such as if he squeals, then you'll reveal the pictures to his new girlfriend or to his family. Tell him that he won't be stuck there forever since you'll be asking room service to help him get out of bed the morning after.

3. Make him pay.

It doesn't matter if your ex love was a cheapo or not, what's important is that he wasn't the man he presented himself to be. Making him pay, literally, is the best revenge if your ex was a philandering jackass or cheapskate who always wanted to be desirable in front of women.




What's more desirable than a man is what's in his wallet—his credit card. If you live in the United States, you could apply for a pre-approved credit card for him. You simply sign his name and his details and mail it back to the credit card company.




Once you receive the credit card, it's time to shop away! He'll be surprised to be called by the credit card company asking him to pay up.

4. Time for a makeover.

You've always been the perfect girlfriend, at least when it came to appearance and personal hygiene. You'd wax, trim and shave for him and always dress up properly for any occasion. Did he even know how painful a Brazilian wax was? If he did, but still let you go through it each time it started getting bushy down there, then it's time to give him one yourself.

Of course, this plan would require some scheming, seducing and drugging. Okay, the drugs may seem a little off hand so you could opt for booze to do the job instead. Simply offer him break-up sex, then drug or intoxicate him and tie him to his bed. While he's asleep, shave off his eyebrows and all his pubes down there and everywhere. Now he's not just a spineless bastard but a hairless one as well.

5. Kiss and tell.

Take Brian Gorell, for example, who published a hate blog against his ex boyfriend, Filipino socialite, DJ Montano. Brian didn't do this out of mere spite, but to ask DJ, who owed him thousands of dollars, to pay up.

Another alternative is to set up a Multiply account or blog using your ex's name and dish everyone he ever hated. You'll be doing everyone a favor including your ex. With that blog, your ex no longer has to backstab the people he hates, and the people featured in his blogwill finally find out what an ass he really is.

6. Kill him. . . Sort of

You can't literally kill him, since that'd be murder. However, there's another way you could obliterate your ex from the world of men, and all it takes is a published ad in the newspaper.

Write an obituary and make sure everyone knows about it. Sure, they'll call him up to confirm and think that everything's a joke. Yet, your ex won't find this prank funny at all. All those phone calls confirming his death will not only be time consuming but irritating as well. If you plan to do this, be ready to be labeled a crazy obsessed ex-girlfriend who needs meds and sessions with a psychiatrist.

7. Role Play.

If his girlfriend is still in high school or college, you should call his girlfriend's parents disguised as a counselor and talk to them about planned parenthood options. Make sure you make a reference to an abortion and say stuff like, "you don’t have to get one just because he won’t support it."

If your ex-boyfriend's still in high school or college you could do the same, except you tell his parents that their son doesn't have to support the child if they have the baby adopted. You could also tell their parents to lecture their children about safe sex and the perils of an early pregnancy or marriage.

Surely, any parent will flip out of their wits if they find out an unwanted pregnancy occurred. Too bad, though, that you won't be able to see the reaction on your ex-boyfriend's face when his parents or girlfriend confront him about the issue.

8. Make technology your new best friend.

The Internet has a lot of uses. Earlier, we mentioned about creating a blog or any online account that you could use to disseminate his dirty little secrets. Another option is to use the Internet to taint his image forever. You could create a youtube account using his information and upload nasty tranny and other pornographic videos under that account.

Next, invite his friends to view his account. His friends will be surprised that your ex is into kinky stuff they didn't even know existed. The best thing about using the Internet as a weapon is that your ex wouldn't know that you created the account on his behalf, unless you're sloppy enough to leave a trail of evidence leading to you.

9. Dump his stuff like he dumped you.

It may seem a bit immature but throwing his stuff away or having it auctioned or sold for the good of charity is a great way to piss off your ex. Include everything he gave you, yes, even that necklace you love so much, and throw it into the pile of "unwanted" stuff.

If you plan to sell all his stuff or have it auctioned, be sure to invite him to your event. He'll be stunned to see that most of his stuff is on sale or up for auction. If he says you can't sell or auction them, tell him that leaving his things behind made them yours.

10. Make him regret it.

There are many ways to get revenge on your ex, but the best way is to make him regret that he dumped you or that wasn't good to you—good enough, that is! Make him feel inadequate by going to the gym and shaping up.

You could also learn a new language or take up a new hobby to keep you busy. Point is, the next time you and your ex bump into each other, you should look and feel better than him. You could make him want you back and be the one to do the dumping this time around. Better still, you could date someone new and flaunt him to your ex the next time you both get invited to the same event.

By picking one of these ways, you'll surely not be just another faded memory in your ex's life. Instead, you'll be that (insert debasing word for a female here) that step

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